Reconnect to your body, your feelings and your truth in safety, compassion, and freedom.
This is for you if you’re:
Because this is a place of honesty, alignment, and ownership.
Here we put down pretenses, fake personas, masks you hide behind, all parts are welcome.
“The world breaks everyone, and afterward many are strong at the broken places. But those that will not break, it kills.”
– Ernest Hemingway –
I’m András Lacfi, a trauma-informed counsel, life coach, and CI therapist in training, a community builder.
I’m not here to fix or save you.
I’m here to walk beside you as a companion who knows:
Jamie Wheal sums this work up beautifully in his amazing book, “Recapture the Rapture”:
“Inspiration, healing and connection function like spokes on a wheel much rather than steps on a ladder. They don’t reveal themselves in a fixed progression or sequence, but once you engage in one, usually the other two will follow. They may come in the cycles of our lives regardless of which branch we enter through. Powerful, deep healing, deep inspiration or powerful connection. This three-legged process is how living is done.”
“We must all learn to stand together as brothers, or we shall perish as fools.”
– Martin Luther King Jr. –
With a deep sensitivity to group dynamics and an unwavering commitment to personal evolution, I stand for a new paradigm of masculine presence: one that is rooted in authenticity, communion, and revolutionary love.
Stranger in a Strange Land is a men’s circle for expats who long for honesty, belonging, and brotherhood.
This is a safe space where men hold men with vulnerability, compassion, and courage. These circles are confidential, honest, based on ownership, and sacred in the broadest sense of the word.
It’s built on ownership, confidentiality, and honesty. A place where all of you is welcome. No judgement. No pretending. Just the power of men showing up for each other fully.
Photo: Andras Turi | AMA
Circles run biweekly. We do both online, and in person circles upon demand in a weekly rotation.
Disclaimer: This is not psychotherapy, nor a dating event.
“We must all learn to stand together as brothers, or we shall perish as fools.”
– Martin Luther King Jr. –
With a deep sensitivity to group dynamics and an unwavering commitment to personal evolution, I stand for a new paradigm of masculine presence: one that is rooted in authenticity, communion, and revolutionary love.
Stranger in a Strange Land is a men’s circle for expats who long for honesty, belonging, and brotherhood.
This is a safe space where men hold men with vulnerability, compassion, and courage. These circles are confidential, honest, based on ownership, and sacred in the broadest sense of the word.
It’s built on ownership, confidentiality, and honesty. A place where all of you is welcome. No judgement. No pretending. Just the power of men showing up for each other fully.
Photo: Andras Turi | AMA
Circles run biweekly. We do both online, and in person circles upon demand in a weekly rotation.
Disclaimer: This is not psychotherapy, nor a dating event.
Payment: Revolut (preferred) https://revolut.me/andrasd9zf
(PayPal, Bank Transfer available on request)
Please be advised, that I do not issue invoices/receipts for insurance reimbursements. Payments are required to be made privately directly after each session.
Packs are to be paid at the end of the first session or circle of the pack purchased. Attendance canceled within 48 hours of a booked session or circle is to be paid fully. Thank you!
Adam “It is rare to find a therapist whose presence alone feels healing, shaped by such deep life experience. Within just a few weeks, our work together brought profound changes that transformed both my family life and my professional path. I am truly grateful.”
Soma “András helped me face emotions I used to run from. I left lighter, stronger, more alive.”
Gergő “Be careful! It can take you very deep, but when you reach the surface, everything will be clear.”
Tamás “András brought me back from the gates of hell. I’ll be forever grateful.”
Gábor “Presence. Energy. Attention. Honesty. Safety. Life.”
Adam “It is rare to find a therapist whose presence alone feels healing, shaped by such deep life experience. Within just a few weeks, our work together brought profound changes that transformed both my family life and my professional path. I am truly grateful.”
Soma “András helped me face emotions I used to run from. I left lighter, stronger, more alive.”
Gergő “Be careful! It can take you very deep, but when you reach the surface, everything will be clear.”
Tamás “András brought me back from the gates of hell. I’ll be forever grateful.”
Gábor “Presence. Energy. Attention. Honesty. Safety. Life.”

It might be messy.
It might be scary.
It will be real.
In person sessions and circles are held at The Shelter, a 10 minute drive from Budapest’s II/a district.
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