Wake up, grow up, show up!

Reconnect to your body, your feelings and your truth in safety, compassion, and freedom.

Who this is for?

This is for you if you’re:

  • Expat and Inpat men feeling disconnected, numb, or overwhelmed.
  • A high-functioning professional navigating divorce, depression, burnout, fatherhood, addiction and unresolved trauma.
  • A man who wants more than rationalising, for those seeking body-based, experiential and deep transformation.

Why “Naked Man”?

Because this is a place of honesty, alignment, and ownership.

Here we put down pretenses, fake personas, masks you hide behind, all parts are welcome.

About me

I’m András Lacfi, a trauma-informed counsel, life coach, and CI therapist in training, a community builder.

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I’m not here to fix or save you.
I’m here to walk beside you as a companion who knows:

  • the weight of loneliness, and the gift of solitude;
  • the ache of divorce, and the possibilities in starting over;
  • the challenges of fatherhood, and the joy of reconnecting with kids;
  • the burden of generational trauma – and the relief of processing it;
  • the pain of being far from home, and the blessing of finding true connection abroad;
  • that the needs addictions fulfill are human, and can be met in healthy ways

No formulas.
No dogma.
No bypassing.
Just the courage to meet yourself fully, and to choose life as it really is.

What You Can Expect

  • Safety & Compassion — Your story deserves to be heard without judgement.
  • Courage & Honesty — Facing what is, opens the path.
  • Emotions as Allies — Fear, grief, rage, shame are not enemies, but teachers.
  • Curiosity — We explore slowly and bravely.
  • Connection — Men heal best in brotherhood. You don’t have to carry it all.
  • Practical Spirituality — Help and healing through ceremony and ritual.
  • A Journey — Not about perfection, but about becoming whole, step by step.

Jamie Wheal sums this work up beautifully in his amazing book, “Recapture the Rapture”: 

Expat Men’s circle

“We must all learn to stand together as brothers, or we shall perish as fools.”
Martin Luther King Jr. –

With a deep sensitivity to group dynamics and an unwavering commitment to personal evolution, I stand for a new paradigm of masculine presence: one that is rooted in authenticity, communion, and revolutionary love. 
Stranger in a Strange Land is a men’s circle for expats who long for honesty, belonging, and brotherhood.

This is a safe space where men hold men with vulnerability, compassion, and courage. These circles are confidential, honest, based on ownership, and sacred in the broadest sense of the word. 
It’s built on ownership, confidentiality, and honesty. A place where all of you is welcome. No judgement. No pretending. Just the power of men showing up for each other fully.

Men's circle AMA

Circles run biweekly. We do both online, and in person circles upon demand in a weekly rotation. 

Expat Men’s circle

“We must all learn to stand together as brothers, or we shall perish as fools.”
Martin Luther King Jr. –

With a deep sensitivity to group dynamics and an unwavering commitment to personal evolution, I stand for a new paradigm of masculine presence: one that is rooted in authenticity, communion, and revolutionary love. 
Stranger in a Strange Land is a men’s circle for expats who long for honesty, belonging, and brotherhood.

This is a safe space where men hold men with vulnerability, compassion, and courage. These circles are confidential, honest, based on ownership, and sacred in the broadest sense of the word. 
It’s built on ownership, confidentiality, and honesty. A place where all of you is welcome. No judgement. No pretending. Just the power of men showing up for each other fully.

Men's circle AMA

Circles run biweekly. We do both online, and in person circles upon demand in a weekly rotation. 

Pricing & Packages

1:1 Support
(Online or In-Person)

  • Free 20-minute Intro Call
  • Online Session: €90 (60 min)
  • In-Person Session: €120 (60 min)
  • 4-Session Pack: €340 online / €440 in-person (save €20–40)

Men’s Circles

  • Membership: €120/month (2 sessions)
  • Drop-in: €70 per session

Payment: Revolut (preferred)  https://revolut.me/andrasd9zf
(PayPal, Bank Transfer available on request)

What Men Say

What Men Say

This hero’s journey begins with one brave step.

It might be messy.
It might be scary.
It will be real.

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