About me

I’m András Lacfi,

a trauma-informed counsel, life coach, and CI therapist in training, a community builder.

I’m also a father, a lover, a brother, an artist, a friend, and a businessman celebrating 7 years of sobriety.

I provide emotional, somatic and spiritual guidance (mostly) for men.

I’ve trained in leadership with Sacred Sons, I study men’s work facilitation and somatic processing with Gábor Windt at AMA.

I bring radical energy, intuitive focus, and creative disruption to my sessions, we will color outside of the lines.  My work is grounded in lived experience, fueled by inquiry, and devoted to the healing power of honest human compassion and connection.

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We lowered our guard yesterday.

We lowered our guard yesterday.

Yesterday I asked the builder to cut fifty centimetres off the top of our fence. On paper this is a trivial construction tweak. But in

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When Vulnerability Beats Professional Distance — What I Learned In “The Camp”.

When Vulnerability Beats Professional Distance — What I Learned In “The Camp”.

Professional psychology still widely teaches that the therapist should remain neutral, emotionally non-participatory, and minimally self-revealing. This model argues that distance protects the clinical frame

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